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April
2005
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Contents
Br
Hilary
Deering RIP
Brother
Colm
O'Connell
First Professions in Kenya
Rejoice in
Hope
God
Works in Mysterious Ways
New Delany
Window
Fethard
Memorials
Province
'62 & Flag '08
Bro.
Hilary Deering
1919 - 2005
 BROTHER Hilary
Joseph Deering who died on Friday, January 21, at Queen of Angels
Hospital, Los Angeles, California, was a native of Ballybit, Rathvilly,
and was older brother of Councillor Micheal Deering, current
chairman of Carlow County Council.
Brother Hilary (85) had lived in LA since 1948 when he was one of six
Patrician Brothers invited by the late Cardinal McEntyre to teach in
the Archdiocese of Los Angeles.
Born on July 9, 1919 into a farming family Joseph Deering was the
seventh of ten children of Patrick and Mary Deering. He was edu-cated
at Rathvilly National School before, at the age 12, transferring to the
Patrician Brothers School in Tullow.
On reaching the age of 16 he left the family farm and joined the
Patrician Brothers boarding school at Mount Wolseley, Tullow.
In 1938 he made his reli-gious vows with the Patrician
Brothers, having taken the name Brother Hilary in religion Upon
graduation from Mount Wolseley, Hilary attended University College
Galway, from where he graduated with a degree in mathemat-ics and
science. Two years later he took his degree in higher education.
He taught in the Patrician Brothers School in Galway city and at the
Order's College in Ballyfin, Co Laois.
Then came the invitation from the Los Angeles Archdiocese where Brother
Hilary went to become Principal of the Boys High School in Santa
Monica. During that time he taught many prominent young stu-dents. One
of his more seri-ous students was the famous actor, Robert Wagner.
While teaching at the Boys’ High School, Hilary worked on his Masters
degree from UCLA, on com-pletion of which he taught at Mount St Mary's
College.
He served on the Diocesan Board of Education under Cardinal McEntyre
and Cardinal Timothy Manning.
After several years he became the principal of Pater Noster High School
on San Fernando Road.
It was a great source of satisfaction to Hilary that he helped many
families achieve higher education. Viewed as a man of
visionary ideas for education, Hilary Deering saw educa-tion as the
gateway to suc-cess and was a man, who gave his life for the success of
others.
St Bernard's Church, LA was Brother Hilary's spiri-tual home. Monsignor
Pat McNulty, who studied at St Patrick's College, Carlow, was his
spiritual advisor. Daily Mass was a must for Hilary and Monsignor
McNulty made the Mass a reality for a man who was deeply and fully
committed to the religious life.
Hilary had greatly enjoyed coming home to Rathvilly over the years when
he renewed many friendships. He had a great dedication to the
Rathvilly, Tullow areas.
The concelebrated funer-al Mass for Brother Hilary was celebrated at
St. Bernards. Chief concelebrant was Hilary’s brother, Monsignor Mark
Deering, Waco, Texas.
Bishop Gerald Wilkerson, Auxiliary Bishop, Los Angeles, who represented
Cardinal Roger Mahoney, presided at the Mass. Burial took place in the
cemetery of the Holy Cross, Culver City, California.
To coincide with the funeral Mass in the US, a special Mass of
remem-brance was celebrated in St Patrick's Church, Rathvilly on
Wednesday night at 7pm, The chief concelebrant was Fr
Paddy Dowling; first cousin of Brother Hilary. The attendance included
family and friends of Brother Hilary as well as Patrician Brothers and
officials and mem-bers of Carlow County Council.
Brother Hilary is survived by his Brothers Monsignor Mark, LP (Laz),
Baltimore, Maryland and Micheal, as well as his nephews in Ireland and
England. Nephews and nieces include Mr Pat Deering, Ballyoliver,
Rathvilly who is vice chairman of Carlow County Board of the GAA, Mrs
Mary Kane (Swords, Co Dublin), Mrs Brigid Saruwatari (Bourlum Wood,
Carlow) and Miss Elizabeth Deering junior Ballybit, Rathvitly). He is
also survived by his sisters-in-law Mrs Elizabeth Deering (Ballybit)
and Mrs Mildred Deering (Baltimore).
Prayer Request
Please remember
in your prayers
Bro. Fergus Osborne
who is recovering
at home in Delany House
after a recent illness and
Bro. David Byrne
recovering in University Hospital, Galway,
having been knocked down by
a car while out cycling.

Bro Colm O'Connell
One of the best known membes of the Patrician Order to
pass through
Newbridge over the years was back in the town for a flying visit last
week. Bro. Colm O’Connell, a Cork-born Brother, who spent some time
teaching in Newbridge during the 1970’s dropped in to visit some
friends on his way back from the World Cross Country Championships in
San Ettienne in France.
Brother Colm, a gregarious
and warm hearted character, has been
teaching in an area of Kenya called Iten for many years. When he first
arrived in Africa in 1976 becoming involved in the school’s sporting
activities helped him settle into his new home. Although a devout
soccer fan, Bro Colm found himself coaching the athletics team taking
over from a man called Peter Foster, brother of the renowned British
runner Brendan. Peter’s enthusiasm for athletics infected all who came
into contact with him including Bro Colm.
Sport has always played a
major part in the educational ethos of the
Patrician Brothers. It is regarded as an excellent method of moulding,
discip-lining and entertaining young minds and bodies. From the
beginning Bro Colm watched and learned from experts. He already had
experience of the basics but needed guidance regarding the technical
aspects of training. He gradually discovered how to build the athletes
up over a three to four month period, how to build an athlete’s
personal technique and how to motivate them better.
By the time the 1988
Olympics in Seoul came around ten of his students
were on the national team. Last year he spoke at a symposium in Glasgow
which attempted to discover why is it that Kenya a relatively small
area of the globe should produce such incredible athletes. The
researchers studied such things as physiology, culture, diet, history,
genetics and location and Bro Colm attended to present his side of the
story as coach to many of the coun-try’s Olympians.
Today Bro Colm works with
college students in an effort to bring HIV
and Aids awareness to the campus. 700 Aids related deaths occur in
Kenya each day. It is an epidemic threatening the county’s very
survival. Bro Colm has devel-oped an Education for life course
com-prising life skills, leadership and health education.
There are 500 young women
and 300 young men training to be teachers at
the college. They come from all parts of Kenya and it is hoped the
education they receive will filter out to each town and village.
Education regarding HIV Aids is integrated into the curriculum through
“carrier subjects” like home science, biology and agriculture. Myths
and taboos are debunked through workshops where the students interact
with counsellors, doctors and teachers Ingrained attitudes are attacked
and education on behaviour and lifestyle are brought to the fore. There
is even HIV and Aids testing and counselling for the students
themselves.
The effectiveness of the
project is tested in 15 local schools that the
col-lege uses for teacher training purposes, In these schools the four
thousand pupils, all of whom are either affected or infected by HIV
Aids can be educat-ed in Aids awareness and prevention-. There is a
window of opportunity with primary school children between the ages of
four and twelve.
By the time they are four
years old it will become apparent whether or
not they have been infected by their parents at birth. There is then a
period of eight years before they become sexually active or start
abusing drugs when edu-cation can influence the rest of their lives.
"Rejoice in Hope"
Bro. Raymond Forde
From
the time it became my responsibility to explain to Kenyan novices
all material contained in Constitutions and Chapter Documents ,
‘Rejoice in Hope’ has been for me a vast source of spiritual comfort
and help.
At first it appeared that the language used was too lofty and
ornate. Unusual and new words such as ‘Breakthrough’,
‘Patriarchy’, ‘Brokenness’, ‘Charism’, ‘Putdowns’, ‘Paradigm’,
‘Holistic’ bewildered and intimidated me as I would find it extremely
challenging to clarify all the intricacies and nuances involved for
those whose first language was not English. Gradually I came to
really love teasing out all the aspirations and reflective thoughts
contained in one sentence or phrase with the class. At one time I
had strongly advocated that the language be simplified. Having
studied each chapter many times in preparation, I quietly altered my
opinion. Why destroy, by changing, something, which to me, was
ideal. To alter anything would somehow dilute the message that is being
conveyed. I was also advised that I take ‘Rejoice in Hope’ as a
guide. What a truly magnificent guide it is and with God’s help
will be for many years yet.
From the last exhortation given by our revered Founder, quoted in the
synopsis of his life, ‘Love God and live together in peace and charity’
through the following pages there are many profound statements on
Prayer and Spirituality, Community, Apostolate and Vocation/Formation:
‘Our prayer is primarily God’s work in us.’
‘Community then becomes the backdrop for meaningful prayer and a
springboard for service and
selfless ministry’.
‘Like the founding Patricians we will step forward in faith, with the
courage of our convictions and rely on the power of the Holy Spirit’.
‘We are convinced that religious life will continue into the future,
though we are unsure about the form it will take’.
These are just a few of my own special quotations from the book but
others will surely have their own particular selections.
In class, as we delved through all the various exhortations and
challenges set forth in each section, we became aware of the complete
sense of diligence and dedication with which the presentation of all
the documents must have been approached. I always emphasised
that, not only every sentence and phrase, but each single word was
thoroughly examined and discussed before being accepted for
inclusion.
We owe our sincere gratitude to the members of the General Chapter 1992
who painstakingly, and with such thoroughness, prepared the various
sections of this magnificent booklet. May our Congregation derive
practical benefit from its pages in the years ahead.
‘Because our call is to serve justly, we
are ready to venture, risk,
even fail,
that some good might take hold, that some hope might be
shared
and that the poor might have their voices heard’.
(Mission
Statement).

God Works in Mysterious Ways
Isn’t it amazing how God
works in our lives! On a Saturday night
several weeks ago, this pastor was working late, and decided to call
his wife before he left for home. It was about 10:00 PM, but his wife
didn’t answer the phone.
The pastor let the phone
ring many times. He thought it was odd that
she didn’t answer, but decided to wrap up a few things and try again in
a few minutes. When he tried again she answered right away. He asked
her why she hadn’t answered before, and she said that it hadn’t rung at
their house.
They brushed it off as a fluke and went on their merry ways. The
following Monday, the pastor received a call at the church office,
which was the phone that he’d used that Saturday night. The man that he
spoke with wanted to know why he’d called on Saturday night. The pastor
couldn’t figure out what the man was talking about. Then the man said,
“It rang and rang, but I didn’t answer.”
The pastor remembered the mishap and apologized for disturbing him,
explaining that he’d intended to call his wife.
The man said, “That’s, OK. Let me tell you my story.
You see, I was planning to commit suicide on Saturday night, but before
I did, I prayed, ‘God if you’re there, and you don’t want me to do
this, give me a sign now.’ At that point my phone started to ring. I
looked at the caller ID, and it said, ‘Almighty God’. I was afraid to
answer!”
The reason why it showed on the man’s caller ID that the call came from
“Almighty God” is because the church that the pastor attends is called
Almighty God Tabernacle!!

New Delany Window
A new window was recently installed in Tullow Church in honour
of our Founder and in commemoration of the bicentenary of the
church which was built by Daniel Delany. The centre panel honours the
Founder, left panel Brigidine Sisters and right panel Patrician
Brothers.
The window was designed by George Walsh, Dublin.
The main celebration of the church bicentenary will be presided over by
Cardinal Connell, retired Archbishop of Dublin, on Sunday October 9th.
The window is being financed by the Patricians and Brigidines.

Fethard Memorials
 It
was recently decided to do some work on the memorials to our
Brothers who are buried in Fethard, Co. Tipperary.
From being
cleaned by sandblasting over a long period the names of the seven
Brothers buried in front of the parish church were almost obliterated
so we had a black polished granite plaque attached to the main memorial
and another on the base with the words PATRICIAN BROTHERS as can be
seen from the photographs.
The memorial and its surrounds were
cleaned. We also replaced the headstone to Bro. James Foley in
the parish cemetery with a low-maintenance polished granite memorial.
The work was carried out by Costigan Memorials, Cahir, Co. Tipperary.
The Patrician Brothers
worked in Fethard from 1873 to 1993. Pictured
are the last three members of the Community: Bro. Paul Duffy R.I.P.,
Bro. Raymond Forde and Bro. Ultan Mahony. Members of the
‘Farewell Committee’, Dick Prendergast, Denis Burke and Ernan Britton
are pictured with the commemorative plaque.
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Farewell
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Irish Province
Seminar 1962 in Ballyfin
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This is the proposed
design of the new Patrician Flag
for our Bicentenary celebrations.
The colours of the flags of the various countries where
Patricians work are incorporated around the cross
in the central globe.
The main colours of the flag relect the white soutane
and green sash of the Patrician religious garb.
"Christus in corde omnium" translates to "Christ in the heart of
everyone" which comes from the prayer
the Breastplate of St Patrick.
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